Since the beginning of time
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The truth is, courage is simpler than you think. Once you grasp its true nature, you will see that not only do opportunities for courage abound
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If you call to mind what it s like and observe it; it s a time where the transition between noticing something (the placement of the ball or hearing approaching zombies) and acting on it is smooth and fast. Your actions may not always pay off, but as long as you re really into what you re doing they pay off more often than not. And when you re playing really well, you know intuitively when to think and when to act so that you don t just rush around to no benefit, and you don t miss opportunities while you re standing and thinking. The exact same thing happens when dealing with women. When you hold back, when you don t let your spirit rise up and forward, she senses this, if even only on an animal level. But when you are not holding back
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The process is this: knowledge always comes first, then judgement, and then action. Knowledge, in some ways can t really be stopped. Your mind is powerful and is sensing gigantic amounts of information even when you re not consciously choosing to think about it. Judgement is when you decide what to focus on. Good judgement means respecting knowledge, and where you go wrong is bad judgement, when you ignore what you know. Action is the follow up.
Here is how bad judgement usually happens: You know you want to get married eventually. You know a certain girl interests you. And you know that being passive doesn t work. Bad judgement usually happens when you start ignoring these things. Good judgement dictates that you take action because nothing will ever really happen with a woman unless you take action. Then, you observe the result of your action. Either the girl wasn t interested, in which case you should probably stop doing that and try something else. Or she was interested, in which case you can file that away as a nugget that will probably work again in the future.
But typically
Cheap Kansas City Chiefs Jerseys , we don t follow our judgement and get solid real world experience. We want to wait until we have a real feeling of certainty that she is interested. From my own experience, if that feeling ever arrives, it turns out to be false. Instead of simply acting and seeing the result, we wait and wait, anticipating that a positive result will come on its own without having to put ourselves on the line at all. This is the very opposite of courage.
This is why courage is a virtue. It is a muscle and exercising it becomes easier, but it always takes a little push at the start before your feelings line up with taking action. Just like on a rollercoaster, you never really feel like starting out until you have already gone over the first hill. Courage not only moves you toward your goal, but it also provides the benefit of making you feel stronger and better whenever you exercise it; however, all the benefits only come after you do it.
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